¡AY MAMÁ!
El Desmadre—like the oft-dreaded The Tower/La Torre—signals a big ontological earthquake, a time when your very foundations are being shaken, your roots pulled out from under you. In Spanish, a “desmadre” is not just any chaos, it is the mother of all chaos—a disorder so profound, it’s as if all our mothers suddenly disappeared and everything fell apart. It is, quite literally, a “dis-mothering.”
If you get El Desmadre in a reading, it signals a time of profound structural change. It might feel like you’re losing all your familiar ground. But take heart: this is more likely—especially after the reckoning of El Dictador—a crumbling of old structures, stories, relationships, or identities that have been trapping you in a tower, not letting you grow.
The comforting ay-bendito mother might not be here, but El Desmadre is the most radical chancletazo. ‘Approvechate’ this moment, take stock, and—when the time comes—rebuild from the ground up.
♫ “When It Comes Down” by Spiritchild
—
If you didn’t know… Those two human figures have the face of my mother! That crown labeled “MAMÁ” is dislodged from the tower, and they fall amongst blue flip-flop chanclas.
This is part of our Winter 2022-23 issue featuring Chancletazo for Your Soul by Marlène Ramírez-Cancio, The Tarot Issue.
Marlène Ramírez-Cancio (2021-22 Aster(ix) Artist in Residence) is a Puerto Rican cultural producer, artist, and educator based in Lenapehoking, aka Brooklyn. She is the Founding Director of EmergeNYC, an incubator and network for emerging artists-activists in NYC and beyond, focused on developing the artistic expression of people of color and LGBTQAI+ folks. In 2021, she brought the incubator to BAX/Brooklyn Arts Exchange, where she is currently Director of EmergeNYC and Practice Lab. Through Mujer Que Pregunta, Marlène works as a tarot practitioner and Process Doula to help BIPOC cultural workers shape their ideas, clarify their purpose, and make sure their projects align with the goals of their practice. When the dinosaurios roamed the Earth, she co-founded Fulana, a Latina satire collective whose videos have been shown internationally at film festivals, museums, and universities. Marlène serves on the Steering Committee of LxNY/Latinx Arts Consortium of New York, the Board of Directors of the National Performance Network, and the Board of Advisors of The Action Lab and the Center for Artistic Activism. She is the mom of a wonderful child, and is currently learning how to sew her own clothes. | mujerquepregunta.com