AND—SCENE.
El Acabose—like Death/La Muerte—is the great letting go, el gran kaput. As La Lupe belted out in 1969: “Se acabóoo, lo nuestro está muertooo.” (She then kindly translates: “Se acabó in English means: it’s over, baby, all over!”) If you get El Acabose in a reading, it’s a sign that something must end. Pum, cayó la piedra. Zapepallá. Yes, El Acabose can clear the way for new and awe-inspiring things in your life, but first you must accept this ending.
What do you know, deep down, you need to release? What has outlived its purpose? What old stories, stale beliefs, or untenable situations must you obliterate? This may be a painful time for you—or it may be a time of relief. Either way, know that there’s no use holding on any longer.
Cry if you have to, play torch songs at full volume, let your eyeliner stream down your face, telenovela-style—do what you need to do, but don’t be in denial.
It’s time for you to let go. Only then will you be ready for new beginnings, open to embracing fresh energies that can transform you. Yo voy a ti.
♫ “Se Acabó” by La Lupe
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If you didn’t know… La Lupe was a Cuban singer. Her energetic performances are captured here with a laughing face that’s also crying (don’t we all know that feeling?).
This is part of our Winter 2022-23 issue featuring Chancletazo for Your Soul by Marlène Ramírez-Cancio, The Tarot Issue.
Marlène Ramírez-Cancio (2021-22 Aster(ix) Artist in Residence) is a Puerto Rican cultural producer, artist, and educator based in Lenapehoking, aka Brooklyn. She is the Founding Director of EmergeNYC, an incubator and network for emerging artists-activists in NYC and beyond, focused on developing the artistic expression of people of color and LGBTQAI+ folks. In 2021, she brought the incubator to BAX/Brooklyn Arts Exchange, where she is currently Director of EmergeNYC and Practice Lab. Through Mujer Que Pregunta, Marlène works as a tarot practitioner and Process Doula to help BIPOC cultural workers shape their ideas, clarify their purpose, and make sure their projects align with the goals of their practice. When the dinosaurios roamed the Earth, she co-founded Fulana, a Latina satire collective whose videos have been shown internationally at film festivals, museums, and universities. Marlène serves on the Steering Committee of LxNY/Latinx Arts Consortium of New York, the Board of Directors of the National Performance Network, and the Board of Advisors of The Action Lab and the Center for Artistic Activism. She is the mom of a wonderful child, and is currently learning how to sew her own clothes. | mujerquepregunta.com